Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

Why do old men think young women and girls would want them over guys their own age?

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

Why are there posts saying the T in LGBT should be dropped? With what is happening in the US and beyond against the trans community cause for concern that if this is accepted could it be deemed acceptable to start on the LGB community again?

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts